Nothing hurts more than watching your child shrink because of bullying or toxic friends.
They laugh it off when their friends whisper about them.
They pretend it doesn't hurt to be excluded.
They stay silent when “friends” mock them.
On the outside, it looks like nothing.
On the inside, you know their self-worth is quietly eroding.
And you’re left awake at night wondering:
💭 “What if this becomes who they believe they are?”
💭 “What if they keep tolerating cruelty because belonging feels safer than being alone?”
You don’t just want your child to survive schoolyard bullying.
You want them to stand tall, walk away without guilt, and know they’re worthy of safe friendships.
That’s what Bully Proof Academy™ delivers.
You’ve probably already tried the usual advice:
“Ignore it and they’ll stop.”
“Find nicer friends.”
“Don’t let it get to you.”
But here’s the truth:
Your child is staying quiet because their nervous system believes any connection—even harmful—feels safer than none.
It’s Survival Wiring.
Like elephants who follow the same herd path even when predators wait — because familiarity feels safer than the unknown.
And while your child freezes, fakes, or tolerates… you feel it as your own guilt, fear, and helplessness.
👉 That’s why reassurance alone doesn’t work. They don’t just need comfort. They need tools.
The Solution?
A System for Both of You
Bully Proof Academy™ is the complete system for parents + kids aged 6–12(and perfectly suited for tweens starting secondary school too).
It gives you both:
✅ Real-world scripts and strategies to use in the moment.
✅ Role plays so kids practice before they’re under fire.
✅ Confidence frameworks that build self-worth from the inside out.
✅ Parent tools so you know how to guide and model strong boundaries at home.
✅ Advocacy support so you never feel dismissed by schools again. Because this isn’t just about your child finding their voice. It’s about you reclaiming yours as a parent too.
Inside Bully Proof Academy™ Your Child Will Learn How To:
Spot manipulation and subtle bullying early (even when it’s wrapped in “friendship”).
Speak up safely with exact words + scripts.
Walk away from toxic groups without guilt.
Build inner safety so their confidence isn’t performative—it’s real.
Choose friendships that feel good, not ones that drain them.
And you will learn how to:
✅ Model the very boundaries you want them to set.
✅ Handle your own freeze response in these situations.
✅ Advocate confidently with schools (with templates + scripts).
✅ Finally stop lying awake wondering if you’re doing enough.
Imagine this:
❌ Right now:
Your child comes home quiet, withdrawn, or frustrated.
They tolerate being left out.
They perform “confidence” on the outside while doubting themselves inside.
You feel helpless.
Angry.
Scared it’s shaping who they’ll become.
✨ With BPA:
Your child says:
💬 “I don’t have to stay where I’m being hurt.”
💬 “Real friends don’t do that.”
💬 “I can walk away and still be worthy.”
And you finally feel relief — knowing you’ve given them skills and self-worth that will last a lifetime.
This is what I call the Courageous Parenting Era:
no more ignoring,
no more minimising,
no more hoping they’ll “toughen up.”
This is about equipping them for life.
Why I Created
Bully Proof Academy™
I know this world too well.
When I was a child, five of my closest friends turned on me.
For 18 months, I was their target.
They whispered, excluded, mocked, and left me walking on eggshells.
I still remember the silence of walking up to a group… and no one saying hello.
That’s why I created BPA.
Because no child should feel powerless in friendships.
And no parent should feel helpless watching it happen.
Your child doesn’t just need to “get through this.”
They need to know their worth so they never shrink to fit in again.
You don’t need to just comfort them anymore.
You can equip them.
For Neurodivergent Families? (Yes, BPA is for you)
If you’re raising a neurodivergent child
whether they’re autistic, ADHD, highly sensitive, or struggle with anxiety
you’ve probably wondered:
💭 “Will these strategies actually work for my child?”
💭 “What if they freeze in the moment?”
💭 “What if they don’t sound confident when they speak up?”
Let me be clear:
Bully Proof Academy™ was built with neurodivergent kids in mind.
Because neurodivergent kids often:
🔸 Experience social rejection earlier and more intensely
🔸 Mask or people-please just to stay safe
🔸 Struggle to recognise when it’s okay to walk away
🔸 Get labelled “too sensitive” when they’re just being emotionally honest
Inside BPA, we do things differently.
✅ We don’t teach generic “speak up” tips that only work for extroverted kids.
✅ We use role plays that help kids feel safe in their body before responding.
✅ We give your child scripts that match their tone, not a polished performance.
✅ We help you model and practice safety—not just say the “right thing.”
Whether your child is verbal, selectively mute, highly empathetic, literal-minded, or struggles with transitions
they will find strategies inside BPA that honour who they are.
This work doesn’t require them to become louder or tougher.
It helps them become safer in their own skin.
And if you’re a neurodivergent parent yourself?
You’ll feel seen too—because I know firsthand how overwhelming it can be to watch your child navigate this world without the manual you never got.
That’s why everything inside BPA is designed to be:
✨ Gentle
✨ Scripted
✨ Clear
✨ Repeatable
✨ And easy to implement—even if your executive functioning is on the floor that day
This isn’t about changing who your child is.
It’s about giving them the tools to stay true to themselves—and still feel safe, respected, and confident.
🖤
The problem is a world that doesn’t make room for their needs.
BPA helps you and your child build that room—together.
What Other Parents Are Saying
"Kim’s empathy with my daughter and her experiences both current and in the past was never doubted. She listened carefully and cared wholeheartedly for my girl which as a mother is something you can only dream of from a coach. We would do this course time and time again. Once is simply not enough."
- Olivia
"Everything you've done for my daughter has been so positive and I thank you SO much for all your help. Even your conversation starters have helped me and my daughter so much."
- Nat
Join Bully Proof Academy™ today.
FAQs
How is BPA different from Fight Back Against Toxic Friends & Bullies?
The 'Fight Back' program helps with bullying happening right now—BPA ensures your child never feels powerless again, in any future conflict.
What age group is BPA for?
Kids aged 7-14, but the strategies work for life.
What if my child is extremely sensitive or anxious?
BPA isn’t about forcing kids to “toughen up.” It’s about equipping them with tools that help them feel in control—no matter their personality type
I don’t have time for a big course—will this take up hours of my day?
BPA is designed to fit easily into real life. Short, powerful lessons, easy-to-implement strategies, and lifetime access so you can go at your own pace.
